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My Cat Died

We had to put her to sleep today. I am really sad if I'm not doing something I start to cry sometimes. Help!

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  • I'm so sorry. I lost two cats over the course of two to three years. I really miss them.
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  • I’m so sorry I had a dog named Uma who we had to put down last year. Just hang in there and think about your happy memories with her. I’m feeling much better now. It will pass.
  • I feel you it’s hard I had a dog named bishop he was the best dog ever and I mean it he was a gentle giant but one day he was very old and he started doing this thing where he would fall and get back up and he just wasn’t doing good so we had to put him down
  • Aw! Im so sorry, I went through something like this when my cat died of FIP.
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    Oh my gosh, Beth, I'm so sorry! :'( *Hugs* Saying goodbye to a pet is always really hard to do, and I am so so so sorry for your loss.
    Try to remember the good times you had with your cat, and remember: It's okay to cry, and to laugh, and to feel All The Feelings as you remember your cat.
    If you ever need a place to talk, feel free to PM me at any time <3
  • I am so sorry, you are not alone ):):):!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • oh my gosh im so sorry. i hope you get a new cat. i know how it feels to lose a pet best of luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • I'm so sorry! Instead of thinking about how bad things are, think about all of your funny, sweet and wild memories with your cat and you'll be able to honor your cat instead. But, it is still very ok to grieve. Talking to someone can help, too.
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