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So recently we got our class schedules for next year. I only have 2 classes with my best friends (E and A) but I have a ton of classes with this girl S. So S and A used to be really good friends, but they got in a huge fight last year and aren't close at all anymore. E and I are still friends with them both.

The problem is that I've been talking to E and we both agree that it seems like they put E with A and me with S next year so each of them has a friend in their classes but they don't have to interact with each other (the reason we suspect this is that the school administration told us last year they would keep A and S out of classes with each other).

I also have to take PE all by myself, and it's my worst class. The last time I took it everyone yelled at me for not being good at sports. It really sucked.

And it REALLY bugs me! Because I like S, but I'm much better friends with E and A. S is really nice, but she's kind of a lot, and I don't know if I can be around her 24/7 without being completely drained. And while S has other friends, I don't really. E is also bothered by this because he and A don't get along great (they're friends but they get into lots of little fights) and we both feel like the admin are using us like pawns to figure out A and S's schedules. It's also my last year at this particular school and I wanted to have more time with my best friends, but I don't know what to do. I feel like I should talk to the guidance counselor (she makes the schedules) but I don't want to seem picky or rude.

Does anyone have any advice?

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  • Ughgghg, that sounds horrible. It seems really annoying that the admin is just trying to make everyone's lives revolve around A and S's schedules! What I think that you could do is maybe talk to E, and try to maybe get him/her to come with you to the counselor, so that you have someone else who agrees with you. Another thing that you could do, is just talk about yor feelings to your counselor. This way, you're not asking her for something, but she still realizes that you do not like the schedules. I realllllly hope this helps!!!
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