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hey people (by the way my phone stops working everytime I open NMG I think it's because my phone is old and terrible but let's just hope my phone can manage it this time •_• )  anyways ilI' start writing now :) so my best friend let's call her "F" so F  lives in a house with a few other families that I also know very well because they go to the same school I go to and the mother of one of the families has cancer.... and her children let's call them "J and N" (there both boys and 12 years old that I know since I'm 6)  and I never see them talk or even bee In the same room with there mother she is probably going to die next week.... And F (my best friend) is really sad  and I'm probably going to stay at her house so she has somebody to talk to however J and F seem perfectly fine they probably cry when nobody is watching....... So recently I got to bring the mother that has cancer (let's call her "S" )food and I saw her and she looks so different then before ......and I'm probably going to be there while she dies and I actually know her pretty well and I can't believe this is happening she is such a great person it's just terrible I don't really know what to do .......

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  • Hold on to her. Thinking about the bad stuff will make it happen
    • I agree, that can really help

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  • i'm so sorry i know how you feel :( :( :(

    my grandmom died of cancer :( :( you can PM me if you want to talk
  • :( You can PM me whenever you need to talk.
  • you can always PM me whenever if you need to talk
  • Aww I'm so sorry! That must be really hard for you! I can totally relate though because my Grandad has cancer ): It is really a terrible thing! 1st thing, just let out all your thoughts and cry if you want to. 2nd You can ask your mum or dad for help or advice because I don't know if this will help you that much! XD 3rd just help the boys out with little things and even though they don't show that they are sad. They probably are. So make them feel better if they look sad. (though it might not seem as easy as it sounds) Don't lose faith and hold on! (; (You can PM me if things get harder if you want)
    • Thanks so much !
  • Aww Annika that’s so much for you to deal with <333 I’m so sorry for everyone involved in that situation. As for advice, other people might have better ideas, but I’d say try to be there for F and N and J, but take care of yourself if it’s too hard for you to be around that environment. My inbox and WhatsApp is always open <33
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