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Sister to Sister: Long Distance Friendships

If you’ve ever had a friend move away, you might know how hard it can be to say goodbye. A lot of times, it seems like it might be the end for your friendship, but it’s actually not that hard to stay in touch! Your friend probably misses you too, and staying in contact is wonderful. One of my best friends and I have lived on opposite sides of the country for about six years, and we still talk almost every day. There are tons of ways to keep long-distance friendships going strong, and many different activities you can find to do together despite the distance.

 

 One of the best ways I’ve found to keep in touch is through video chat, like FaceTime or Skype. That way, you and your friend can still talk face-to-face and it feels a little more personal than just texting or email. It means you can chat, joke around, and just hang out – just like always. Writing letters, texting, and calling regularly are still great ways to keep in touch, though. Any way you find to stay in contact is fantastic. Writing traditional ink-and-paper letters is great too, since then you can send drawings and photos too.

 

 There are also a lot of super fun activities you can still do with your friend, even if you can’t hang out in person. Are you two both fans of the same book series or show? Maybe you could write some fanfiction together. Do you both like musicals? Maybe start writing, or at least planning out, one of your own! Do you both like art? You could try writing a comic together, where each person draws one panel and then sends it back to the other, who then adds the next one. Just because you both live in different places doesn’t mean that there isn’t anything cool you can do together! Some of the most fun I have is when I'm writing goofy stuff with my friend in another state.

 

 While keeping long-distance friendships might seem a little tricky, it’s really pretty easy to stay close to the people you care about. There are always ways you can find to have fun with your friends, even when you’re hundreds of miles apart. Just show them you care, talk to them, and have fun with them!

 

 Have you ever had a friend move away, or had a pen pal? If so, what were some of the ways you stayed in touch with them? Do you have any good tips on having long-distance friendships? If so, feel free to tell us in the comments. I’d love to hear from you!

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Hi! I'm Cat. I'm an awkward and nerdy teenager just trying to do their best in this world. I've been on NMG since early 2015. If you have any questions about stuff or ever just want to talk, I'm always here!

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  • Thanks for writing this! My childhood best friends moved away to Germany when I was eight and it has been really hard to keep in touch with the time difference and all. I am trying to get the sister to join NMG so that would help!
  • Part of my life is built on online friendships so this was really helpful :).
  • Thank you for writing this! I have a friend who moved away a few years ago, and we text. I also have a bunch of friends that I haven't seen in awhile because my family is traveling right now.
  • This is great, Cat! I have a friend who lives in Vermont, almost half a day away. We email every so often, and make sure to stay in touch.
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  • I LOVE THIS!
  • it’s true. if you are addicted to the internet & (or) websurf. it can cause severe cyber bullying, viruses, and extreme hoffic content (mostly ads) and somtimes tracking. Some good ways to prevent this on the open internet(in my opinion) are

    1. Do not look up random things

    2. Research an online community before you use it. (Not all sites are like NMG)

    3. When signing up for something, do NOT skip the terms of service , or the privacy policy. EVER.

    4. You have to be able to turn or log off the site during servere drama, if it’s against another person get an adult.(severe bullying directed at you for example)

    5. Don’t use the internet as a mask, for yourself. ( don’t spite against others even if your
    Offended or angery, etc...)

    6.have etiquette

    7.dont ask for personal info

    I hope this helps
    (I’ll edit later.)
  • These S2S tips are great!
  • This makes so much sense! Thank you. Also, your drawings are the best. Like, seriously, the coloring is amazing.
  • I can totally relate to this!
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  • I love it!! I can completely relate to this post, and it has really made me reconsider how I was feeling about the fact I was single. Also, the illustrations really add an element of friendliness and fun. <3
  • <3 Thank you for yet another wonderful blog post :)
    • ^^^^
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      • Mod S2S Mentor
        Yes, I'm pretty sure it is! I noticed it last week for the first time. :0 :D

        Far as I can tell, it seems to be connected to the whole of Luna's Blog (unlike the comment section, which is only tied to the specific individual blog post you comment on); I can see the "What Do You Think?" section and all the comments in it from *any* blog post. :)
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